Imagine, for just 2 seconds, that your life hangs in the balance and the only people that can save you from certain death, are complete strangers.

I do not have to imagine it, I live it - everyday. Instead of being a victim of a rare blood disorder or the survivor of a near death experience, I choose to be a LIVING TESTIMONY of the need for blood donors. As an advocate and spokesperson working with the nation's two largest blood collection organizations, I hope to connect donors to the lives they save through education, encouragement and open communication. Together, we can save lives, one pint at a time.


Every 2 seconds, someone requires a blood transfusion to live.

That's why "It's Hip 2 Give!"

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Tuesday, November 30, 2010

The Laughter of "Virginia This Morning"

A few weeks ago, I learned that I was invited to be on "Virginia this Morning" on WTVR CBS 6 in Richmond. Excited of course, I eagerly arrived this morning full of just the right things to say ready to share the message about blood donation.

First things first, in my world, I've never been anywhere that I didn't have to make at least one u-turn. Today that didn't come on the drive, because it's a well worn path from my house to Richmond, rather once I arrived and was on foot. I was the person that tugged on the front door, not noticing the "buzzer" that I needed to use, and proceeded to walk around the building (in 4 inch heels) to find another door. Only to return to the front door, find the buzzer, and walk right in. I'm sure that was a sight to behold from that one-way glass the receptionist was looking through.

This was just the beginning of a morning filled with laughter. I had arrived early and wanted to make sure I met Amanda Meadows. Amanda is the traffic reporter at WTVR and if you are her Twitter friend like I am, she is @GridlockGoddess. She steers me clear of traffic all the time when I'm traveling and we had a few minutes to catch up and share a few laughs.

While waiting for the show to begin, I was able to visit with the other guests and was then whisked away to the studio to do a quick "teaser". I ended up doing two teasers for the segment and even learned to use the teleprompter - yes, I have found my new career. (Not really, but one can dream!)

I finally got on set for the last interview of the show. Jessica and Greg were full of laughs and fun the entire hour and it just continued on set. Jessica really tried to get my crown and I even offered it to her at the last moment, alas we ran out of time. Perhaps she can come earn it next year at the pageant!

In the end, I was honored to share part of my story and the need for blood donors while also promoting my title. Every opportunity to reach more donors means more lives saved.

(Copy and Paste the link below into your browser for the actual on-air interview)

http://www.wtvr.com/videobeta/f41f232e-8749-48a0-aca3-2f14b3ec2e74/Community/Mrs-Virginia-International-2011

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Sunday, November 28, 2010

Mimicing Alzheimer's Disease

Earlier this summer I mentioned that I had been diagnosed with Autoimmune Pernicious Anemia (APA) in addition to my Acute Iron Deficiency. I briefly went into the symptoms and reasons for the diagnosis but haven't truly revisited the subject since then. Partially because life was just busy and because, well, I truly needed to educate myself on all of the aspects possible.

My beautiful grandmother, Alice, or more appropriately "Nannie", passed away from Alzheimer's disease along with her mother and it seems as if her mother also. Hearing the doctor state that APA has traits that mimic or can be linked to Alzheimer's is beyond comprehension and a statement that I will likely never forget.

First of all, let's remind ourselves what APA is: It a potentially fatal nutritional deficiency caused by the body's inability to absorb vitamin B-12, which is essential to the body's production of red blood cells. APA is caused by the absence of intrinsic factor, a substance secreted by the stomach. Intrinsic factor facilitates the absorption of vitamin B-12.

Knowing this, and that three generations of women in my family were affected by dementia, I sat, listening to the words the doctor said, swirl around like a tornado in a china shop. Immediately I blamed APA for their illnesses although I will be honest that they were never screened for APA so linking them together is difficult. However, because APA is a hereditary disease, it is likely that they too carried the traits for APA.

So how can APA be overlooked in blood tests? Because the body stores B-12 very efficiently, it takes years for pernicious anemia to develop and for symptoms to begin to show.

What are the symptoms of APA? A tingling numbness in the feet and hands ("boot and glove" numbness) is a common symptom of pernicious anemia. It occurs because of nerve damage caused by the B-12 deficiency.

Another frequent symptom is memory loss--not a momentary forgetfulness, but actual "erasures" or "holes" in the memory. Left untreated, this symptom can develop into a secondary dementia, which resembles such primary dementia's as Alzheimer's disease. Unlike primary dementia's, however, secondary dementia's can be treated and usually reversed if proper diagnosis of the cause of the dementia leads to appropriate treatment.

Like other anemias, APA is associated with fatigue and a lack of energy, but in the absence of other characteristic symptoms, fatigue alone is unlikely to suggest a diagnosis of pernicious anemia.

Similarly, other symptoms associated with APA may also suggest other conditions, unless accompanied by symptoms more obviously characteristic of pernicious anemia, or unless pernicious anemia has already been diagnosed by means of a blood test. Such symptoms may include weakness, loss of appetite, unexplained weight loss, pallor (paleness) or jaundice (yellowish skin tone), a red or inflamed tongue, gastrointestinal distress, and nervous disturbances.

In other words, APA, is VERY difficult to diagnose because it mimics so many other diseases.

And the ultimate question - Can APA be cured?

There is no cure for APA, but it can be successfully treated with intramuscular injections of vitamin B-12. Left untreated, pernicious anemia will cause progressive and eventually permanent nerve damage, memory loss (potentially leading to fully developed dementia), and ultimately death. With timely diagnosis and treatment, however, existing nerve damage can be partially or completely reversed, as can the secondary dementia caused by the disease.

Do I still wonder if three generations in my family had APA and just went undiagnosed? Absolutely. Am I concerned that my long-term prognosis is dementia? Absolutely? Am I concerned that this will affect my daughter? my mother? my sister? You better believe I worry about it.

This is just another reason to fight for blood donors for clean blood transfusions, I continue to live today because of them and I will continue to fight for each day with all my heart, my passion, and my mind.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Cooking for Heroes

In late spring of 2010, I was asked if I would participate in the "Cooking for Heroes" cookbook that the American Red Cross was developing for 3 east coast blood services divisions. Of course I jumped at the opportunity but then, I wondered, what do I submit?

Knowing that I absolutely love to bake - cupcakes being the number one choice - I quickly pulled together my best recipe. Only to learn that they had enough desserts and would really like to have a side dish or salad. Being flexible, I knew the next best (and simplest) recipe I could pull together. Quick Pea Salad

One of the first things I learned to fix, that others actually liked, was this pea salad that includes only 7 ingredients yet tastes so good. So of course, I had to include it in the book. What is most exciting about the cookbook?

There are many celebrities in the book including, former President Jimmy Carter; Miss America; Dolly Parton; VA Gov. Bob McDonnell and many more - such an honor. But most of all, I am delighted that my recipe shares a page with a recipe from a blood donor. I intend to go through the book and try each recipe. Afterall, these individuals are helping to save lives, even through the cookbook. Of course, the first recipe I try will be from the blood donor my recipe shares a page with.

If you are donating blood in the Mid-Atlantic region, you can receive a copy of the cookbook free in November and December. Donate today and cook tomorrow!

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Bountiful Blessings

Thanksgiving always seems to bring family together and feelings of gratefulness for another year of blessings.

This year is no different than the rest in that the food is being prepared and the family is gathering in a multitude of locations - except, this year, I am even more grateful than ever for the opportunity to celebrate the holiday.

The past 12 months have been filled with it's own trials, triumphs and opportunities. I have become engaged on a state and national level with several organizations; seen loved ones enjoy personal growth; been blessed to experience life through my daughter's eyes; I achieved an 8-year goal of becoming Mrs. Virginia International; and faced health complications that only furthered my cause. It has been a year of blessings in more ways than I could possibly count.

The upcoming holiday season will continue to put a strain on the delicate balance of blood supply and I ask that while I am thankful for the blood donors that continue to save my life, I (or WE) still NEED you to donate. Especially this holiday season.

Bustling malls and sales galore will NOT fill the shelves at your local blood bank. Only you can do that - so why not take one hour out of your shopping or cooking schedule and save 3 lives. Give someone else the blessing of life this holiday season.

From our home to yours, we wish you the brightest blessings for a Thanksgiving holiday filled with love, family, laughter and gratitude.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

BOWLed over!

Being saved by blood donors has only enhanced my life beyond imagination - but by far the best part of life, is seeing my daughter grow up.

This past weekend, we celebrated her 11th birthday with a Bowling Party. Strictly her idea and it turned out absolutely fabulous. Lexi and 14 of her closest friends/family joined her in the celebration. Of course, her party isn't complete with out her signature zebra print and lime green flair, so as you will see the cake was certainly the centerpiece of all centerpieces.

I am eternally grateful for blood donors as they will ensure that I will continue to see Lexi grow and mature into the lovely young lady we are already seeing.

Happy Birthday Jellibean!

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Friday, November 19, 2010

Opening Doors

Just a few weeks ago, I joined my friends at the Blood Bank of Delmarva during their Summer Blood Challenge Award Ceremony. Now it was time to join them again, only this time, was to celebrate the grand opening of their new Christiana Blood Donor Center.

First built in 1986 the donor center has saved thousands of lives and now it was time for the center to be given a new chance at life. Over a two year period, the center expanded to included more parking, many more donor beds, and much needed office/production space.

I was thrilled to be a part of the experience and help celebrate a continuing legacy in saving lives.

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Sunday, November 14, 2010

INCEPT: Update on Tattoo Legislation

Another installment of a guest blog from my friends at INCEPT. I have discussed donating blood and tattoos in the past, but here is some important news regarding both.


Even if you recently got a tattoo, it may not disqualify you from donating blood!

In many states, such as Pennsylvania, you have to wait 12 months after getting a tattoo before you're eligible to donate again. Unfortunately, people have been forced to choose between self-expression and giving blood.

Blood banks lose a number of donors and their potential pints of blood because of this rule - sometimes as many 120 pints per day in Illinois, according to the State Journal-Register. Officials are concerned about the possibility of donors transferring hepatitis - inflammation of the liver - which is spread through blood-to-blood contact. This can happen if needles are not sterilized or if ink is reused. In an effort to increase the donor pool, some states have regulated tattoo parlors statewide.

In December 2009, the Illinois State Health Department joined the fray. Accordingly, as of January 2010, if you donate at LifeSource in Chicago, you only have to wait a week to begin donating blood again, providing the tattoo was done in a state-licensed facility (not one that you did yourself on a dare!). Other states, like Minnesota, are also jumping on the bandwagon. The health departments and the Red Cross are working together on legislation.

If you're thinking about getting a tattoo and you're curious if you'll still be able to donate blood, contact your local blood center and find out more about their regulations. If you get a tattoo in a state-regulated tattoo parlor, you might not have to wait a year!

States with regulated body art establishments:

Alabama
Alaska
Arkansas
California
Delaware
Illinois
Kansas
Kentucky
Louisiana
Maine
Michigan
Mississippi
Missouri
Montana
Nebraska
New Hampshire
New Jersey
New Mexico
North Dakota
Ohio
Oklahoma
Oregon
Rhode Island
South Carolina
Tennessee
Texas
Vermont
Virginia
West Virginia
Wisconsin

Meredith Morckel
Internet Conversational Marketing Expert
www.inceptsaves.com


(List courtesy of LifeSource – www.lifesource.org)

Saturday, November 6, 2010

Be The Match: VABA Tournament

The close cousin to donating blood is bone marrow. This is important in my long term care because if I don't maintain my health and blood levels, I too could be needing a marrow transplant.

Just this week, I learned of an event happening locally that I wanted to make a visit to. Never wanting to arrive and impose, I contacted the coordinators of the Virginia Basketball Academy (VABA) as they were sponsoring the event. My last minute note was warmly received and I was so excited to see what the Academy was doing for the children and Be The Match.

Last year's event garnered 150 registrations for bone marrow donors. I can only hope that this year's is just as successful. While accepting all of those registrations, the children (and some adults too) are working on team building, techniques and a tournament. Needless to say, it's two days filled with lots of learning, character building, and community love. Tomorrow, team members from the University of Virginia will be in attendance to help the students and I'm sure, play a good game too!

Attending this event became even more important to me as a sweet friend, Nancy Case, became her sister's hero this week when she donated her bone marrow. Nancy and her sister have been in my prayers for some time and I can't wait to see the newest hero I know.

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Thursday, November 4, 2010

Ladies & Gentlemen: Start Your Engines!

The rush of speed and decibel of sound contained within a motor speedway are only two of reasons I absolutely LOVE NASCAR racing. The organization as a whole does a tremendous amount of philanthropic work in addition to entertaining millions for more than 40 weeks a year.

This Sunday, November 7, is the AAA Texas 500 NASCAR Sprint Series race. As an avid fan, I've been to many races and truly enjoy the main event, but the pre-shows are certainly filled with lots of action, celebrities, and unforgettable entertainment. This weekend will be no different.

The American Red Cross is the sponsor for the race's pre-show and it's purpose is to "Salute Our Troops". And the pre-show this year includes Willie Nelson and Lee Ann Womack - not bad Texas! One priority of the Red Cross is to provide support to military members and their families. The Red Cross connects men and women in the US Armed Forces with their families more than 400 times each day.

This weekend, race fans will be able to donate money to the organization through a text-to-donate program. The money raised will help the Red Cross fulfill its mission, including helping our service men and women along with their families.

TEXT: REDCROSS to 90999 to donate $10 to the American Red Cross and our Troops

Ryan Newman joins the Red Cross Racing team this weekend and joins a winning team set to push forward into a stellar 2011 season. In the 2011 season, I will be joining in the Red Cross Racing fun, you'll have to check back for the details, but for now, there are only 3 races left in the Chase this season, we'll have to wait and see who grabs the ultimate checkered flag.

The Red Cross is instrumental in saving lives through blood donation, disaster relief, community crisis and more. Taking a few minutes and a few dollars to give to such a worthy cause can be your good deed of the day!

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

New Look - Same Mission

You may have noticed that the "It's Hip 2 Give" logo got a little make-over in the last few weeks.

Thanks to a valuable Social Media networking opportunity and the kindness of an avid follower, Ryan Moser, donated his services and talents to revamp the logo. Now, we'll be able to have our logo on t-shirts, signs, and more marketing material than I ever thought possible.

If you have the time, you can visit Ryan at his site www.ryanmoser.com and see his beautiful work and his love of photography! A heartfelt thank you goes out to Ryan for helping to further the cause!